Judgements!!!

This article is Direct Dil se!! By a friend of mine ,DharamVeer Singh... it impressed me so much that I thought it must go in this space..

So here it goes....
Jai Gurudev!!!

Though you have heard "don't judge," yet judgment comes unavoidably in day-to-day life.

By the actions and behaviors of people, you either approve or disapprove. But always remember that everything is changing, and do not hold onto the judgment. Otherwise your judgment gets solidified like a rock. It brings misery for you and for others. If judgments are lighter like air, like a breeze, they bring in fragrance, and then move away. They could bring a foul smell, and then move away. They should not stay there forever.

Judgments are so subtle that you are not even aware of their existence. Judging or labeling someone as judgmental is also a judgment. Only in the state of Being when you are full of love and compassion can you ever be free from all judgments. Yet the world cannot move without judgments. Until you judge something as good or bad, you cannot do any actions. If you see rotten apples in the market, you say, "No good." Good ones you buy. If someone lies to you ten times, you think next time it also could be a lie. A judgment happens automatically. See the possibility that people and things can change at any time and don't hold onto the judgments.

You need to judge your company. Your company can pull you up or pull you down.

The company that drags you towards doubt, dejection, blame, complaints, anger, delusion, and desires is bad company.

The company that pulls you up towards joy, enthusiasm, service, love, trust, and Knowledge is good company.


Your company can create Hell for you in Heaven -- or Heaven for you in Hell. Judge for yourself . . . !